One of the comments that my clients make when we first start talking is the fear of making friends. Making friends on a vacation vs making friends when you are settling into a new city will evidently look different. As someone who has moved countries 3 times, these are the ways that I have managed to meet new friends.
Don't be too frightened, you will definitely find your crowd.
Your new job
Work will be a really great source of making new friends when you move to a new destination because you spend so much time with these people. Work a customer facing role? Post shift bevs can be a great way to unwind.
Try out a new hobby
In person group meetups.
Facebook groups.
Introduce yourself online
Dating apps.
Friends of friends.
Just a few tips on safety
It may seem silly to add this bit but I just want you all to stay safe and meet great people
- As a rule of thumb I always meet people out in public for coffee/drinks where there are other people around. Just to make sure that they are who they say they are...
- Be trusting but don't immediately give away alot of information.
- Focus on your gut instinct, it's entire purpose is to keep you safe.
- Send a quick message to someone who you know whether that be someone from home or your housemates, just so someone knows what you are up to.
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